Patience.

It's something that most of us in the world lack. We hate waiting in long queues, we hate it when someone nags, even if out of concern, we snap at people before we think about the consequence, etc. There are so many forms of patience in the world, and we lack all of them, especially in the relationships.

Things don't always go your way. In relationships, there are always ups and downs. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, and till this day, I believe that's true. Both parties have to work at it to make it a happy relationship. No exceptions. There is no class, no race, no religion, no shit. In whatever way you look at it, both have to work together.

Sometimes, you get angry at the other, and that's completely natural. We all make mistakes, big or small. But very few are good reasons for ending the relationship, if any at all. No, we usually decide to break a relationship based on something one did or not do, and hold it against them for a very long time, without even thinking about why it happened. There's no thinking from the other's point of view. Just your own. And this applies to not only the one who gets hurt, but the one who does the hurting as well.

Some guys are assholes, jerks, blah blah blah, and think they're like God's greatest gift to women. On the other hand, some gals think they're always right, and use PMS as the perfect excuse to get out of everything.

What I'm trying to say I guess, is that one shouldn't judge the other completely cos of that one mistake. Sometimes it's not their fault, sometimes it's theirs. There's always a reason, and both parties owe it to each other to at least listen to it. Be fair. But most of all, be patient.

Sometimes, I can't help but get annoyed when gals (or sometimes even guys) use PMS as an excuse for the moment. Yes, I know the gal is in pain, and sometimes is just not in the mood for much. But in my opinion, that doesn't give the gal an excuse for pretty much everything. The worst kind are those who insist on 3 ways of looking at PMS: Pre, Pro, and Post.

Guys aren't any better when it comes to handling the situation better. They don't remember that when it's THAT time of the month, extra sensitivity must be practiced, and they should remember that the gal is trying hard not to burst out in a prissy mood or anything at you, even though she's in pain. Instead, they shoot their mouth off, do things that even though both enjoy, she's not up to.

I think I lost my way somewhere about this post. But yeah. Hope you'll be able to see where I went with this post.

However, like I said, even though it barely has any regard to this post, it still is the best way to end it.

Patience.

Peace...